Divorce Disasters: 5 Common Mistakes to Avoid for a Smoother Split

5 Divorce Disasters to Avoid

Going through a divorce is widely known as one of the more emotionally taxing legal processes. There is no harm in seeking legal assistance to ensure careful navigation. There are many mistakes that, if not avoided, can lead to a prolonged divorce process and complicated trajectory, well after your divorce matter has concluded. Here are some common mistakes and how to avoid them:

  1. Failing to Hire an Experienced Divorce Attorney

One of the first steps when going through the divorce process is researching divorce attorneys and choosing counsel that is the right fit for you. Here at Lyons and Associates, we have multiple attorneys, who specialize in all aspects of divorce including equitable distribution, spousal support, custody, and child support. Each divorce case is an intricate matter, requiring unique perspectives that can and should be handled with expertise. Hiring an experienced attorney can provide you with guidance that will affect you for the rest of your life.

  1. Not Creating a Detailed Parenting Plan

For couples who are going through a divorce with children, it can be difficult to navigate the perfect situation for all parties involved. A well-structured parenting plan addressing flexible custody arrangements, decision-making responsibilities, and visitation schedules are important for children to continue to grow in a positive environment. It is crucial to know and protect your rights when it comes to raising your shared children.

  1. Not Communicating with Respect

Effective communication, even when going through a divorce, is important for preventing a misunderstanding that can lead to more aggravation. Avoiding hostile words, when possible, can scale back tensions and prevent prolonging the process. A counselor or mediator can assist you in clear and respectful dialogue.

  1. Ignoring the Potential Effects on Financials

Hastening through the divorce process to simply ‘get it over with’ can be tempting, but it can also lead to poor decision making when important details are overlooked. Decisions regarding alimony, asset division, and child support will impact your financial future. Think about hiring a financial advisor to help plan accordingly, and focus on addressing retirement accounts, insurance policies and potential tax consequences. An experienced divorce attorney can guide you to ask the right questions to the most competent experts.

  1. Relying on your Emotions while Making Decisions

Divorce is a sensitive process. However, allowing emotions to drive all decisions can cause a divorcing party to act impulsively, without weighing the pros and cons of a particular choice. Here at Lyons and Associates we understand that the divorce process may be overwhelming at first. Aiming for amicable negotiations whenever possible can reduce costs and emotional strain. It is imperative to approach the process with a clear mind.

We are here for you at Lyons and Associates and want to help you navigate your divorce with the least amount of stress as possible. Avoiding these common mistakes can smoothly assist the process. Remember, the right choices now can set the stage for a brighter tomorrow. If you are seeking guidance, do not hesitate to contact our divorce lawyers at Lyons & Associates, P.C. Even if you and your spouse agree on all of the issues that need to be resolved during the divorce process, it is in your best interest to have a dedicated divorce lawyer on your side. To schedule a free consultation, call us at 908-575-9777 or contact us online. Located in Somerville, Morristown, and Freehold, New Jersey, we serve clients throughout Somerset, Woodbridge, Morristown, Parsippany, Rockaway, Short Hills, Chatham, Randolph, Madison, Morris Plains, and Monmouth County.

 

Written by Lyons and Associates, P.C. intern-Bella Sweet