Navigating the Sale of Your Home While Going Through a Divorce

Divorce is a challenging life event that can take a toll emotionally, mentally, and financially. If you find yourself having to sell your marital home, it can add an additional layer of complexity to an already difficult situation. These essential steps can help you to overcome potential hurdles and work toward a successful outcome.

Open and Honest Communication:

Despite the emotional challenges, it is crucial to maintain open and honest communication with your soon-to-be ex-spouse throughout the selling process, if possible. Discuss the decision to sell the property, agree on a timeline, and be willing to cooperate for a smooth and amicable sale.

Seek Legal Advice:

Divorce proceedings entail legal complexities, and the sale of a residential home is no exception. Engage the services of a reputable divorce attorney who is also experienced in advising you regarding your real estate matters. Your divorce attorney is best suited to advise you to sell your home before or after you are divorced. They will guide you through property division and protect your rights to ensure a fair and equitable distribution of this important asset.

Choose the Right Real Estate Agent:

Selecting a knowledgeable and experienced real estate agent is paramount. You should hire an agent who is not only knowledgeable in handling home sales during divorces but has a deep understanding of the local market. A skilled agent can provide valuable advice, mediate between sellers and buyers professionally, and alleviate some of the stress during this critical phase.

Determine a Listing Price:

Pricing your home correctly is a crucial aspect of selling your home. Emotions may cloud judgment, so it is essential to rely on your real estate agent’s expertise. They will conduct a comparative market analysis (CMA) to assess the property’s value and help you set a fair and competitive price that attracts potential buyers and can even get you multiple offers.

Prepare Your Home for Sale:

First impressions matter!  Work with your real estate agent to stage the property effectively, enhancing its appeal to a broader range of buyers. Remove personal items, declutter, and make necessary repairs to ensure the property shines during showings.

Consider Mediation:

In situations where communication with your ex-spouse becomes difficult, mediation can be a valuable option. A neutral mediator can help facilitate discussions, find common ground, and resolve conflicts, ensuring a smoother selling process for both parties.


Selling your home while going through a divorce may seem like an overwhelming task, but with careful planning and the right approach, it is possible to achieve a successful sale. Maintaining open communication, seeking legal advice, and collaborating with a qualified real estate agent are vital components of this process. Remember to prioritize your emotional well-being and seek support when needed, turning this challenging chapter into an opportunity for a fresh start in life.

I would be happy to help you navigate through this process and get your home sold with the best possible results for you.  Feel free to contact me with any questions, or to schedule a meeting. 

Laura Castrillon is a licensed Broker Associate with Keller Williams Realty West Monmouth. Laura has always had a passion for real estate. After working over 16 years in corporate accounting and finance roles for Fortune 500 companies, she decided to make a career change and became a full-time REALTOR®.  She is an Accredited Buyer’s Agent (ABR), Pricing Strategy Advisor (PSA) as well as a real estate investor and has a BS in Accounting from Seton Hall University and an M.B.A. from Georgian Court University.  She is also a passionate animal lover who previously ran a dog and cat rescue group for 15 years, saving thousands of animals from being euthanized in shelters.

Laura has a great knowledge base of the inventory and market conditions in Monmouth and Ocean counties and the surrounding areas. Laura loves to help people and it gives her great satisfaction when she can help her clients attain their real estate goals and make it as simple a process as possible for them.

Laura Castrillon
Broker Associate
KW Realty West Monmouth
Cell: (732) 766-3377